Woohoo day 60! It was one of my happiest of days!
I spent the day road tripping with my beautiful friend, sister, colleague, Mumma to be, bestie. What a wonderful woman she is…
She gets me. Every little bit. She doesn’t mind my quirkiness or the strange things that I do or say, in fact she celebrates them. And I return the favour. You know today she noticed she’s getting a double chin (so she thinks anyway, I disagree!) but what surprised me was when she said this: “I’m proud of it.” Oh boy we were in hysterics of laughter over that!
But it made me realise how important she is. She is genuine and honest. She is real about life. She is comfortable in her skin and encourages others to be the same. It means I can be myself around her and she can be herself around me. It’s the foundation to a friendship. A STRONG foundation.
We talk about anything & everything, and it’s just so refreshing! Being with her is like being with Jesus. I don’t have to hide, I don’t have to be afraid, I don’t have to think about what I’m saying; everything flows naturally. Nothing is awkward!
The inside jokes that we have carry us through and we get into trouble… With each other haha.
I’m just so blessed to be given a friend like this. One that is a step ahead in life to me, so I can always count on her for advice. We mesh. We have similar values and ideas about life. She is a blessing from the heavens I tell ya!
I work with her too, but it doesn’t make a difference. In fact I think it has made us stronger! We have learnt to appreciate each other’s strengths & weaknesses. We know when each other needs space or when we’ve been stroppy with each other! We can often sort those moments out without needing to voice anything which is great cause confrontation sucks!
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 Two are better than one, because they have a better return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up!
That sums up the true meaning of friendship quite nicely.